Control Issues Quotes

Because children take everything personally, they believe that if they are being mistreated, it's because they haven't been “good enough.” Being good as an adult makes them believe, incorrectly, that they have some control in life. They think that they will be rewarded for their goodness and that it will protect them from harm.

Having no need to judge, control, react, so forgiveness does not even arise.

To lose a problem, do not oppose, let go of any need to control, perhaps it's all an illusion we project, more like a game we play than real?

It's weird, marriage. It's like this license that gives a person the legal right to control their spouse / their 'other half.

People turned against each other cannot turn against those responsible.

DaShanne Stokes

The more we're thrown into conflict with each other through engineered distrust, the less able we are to unite against those responsible.

DaShanne Stokes