Traumatic events destroy the sustaining bonds between individual and community. Those who have survived learn that their sense of self, of worth, of humanity, depends upon a feeling of connection with others. The solidarity of a group provides the strongest protection against terror and despair, and the strongest antidote to traumatic experience. Trauma isolates; the group re-creates a sense of belonging. Trauma shames and stigmatizes; the group bears witness and affirms. Trauma degrades the victim; the group exalts her. Trauma dehumanizes the victim; the group restores her humanity.Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another person’s unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed—faith, decency, courage—is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself. At that moment, the survivor begins to rejoin the human commonality…
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Traumatic events destroy the sustaining bonds between individual and community. Those who have survived learn that their sense of self, of worth, of humanity, depends upon a feeling of connection with others. The solidarity of a group provides the strongest protection against terror and despair, and the strongest antidote to traumatic experience. Trauma isolates; the group re-creates a sense of belonging. Trauma shames and stigmatizes; the group bears witness and affirms. Trauma degrades the victim; the group exalts her. Trauma dehumanizes the victim; the group restores her humanity.Repeatedly in the testimony of survivors there comes a moment when a sense of connection is restored by another person’s unaffected display of generosity. Something in herself that the victim believes to be irretrievably destroyed—faith, decency, courage—is reawakened by an example of common altruism. Mirrored in the actions of others, the survivor recognizes and reclaims a lost part of herself. At that moment, the survivor begins to rejoin the human commonality…
About The Quote
- Abuse
- Abuse Survivors
- Affection
- Altruism
- Belonging
- Bond
- Bonding
- Bonds
- Community
- Connection
- Connection With People
- Courage
- Decency
- Dehumanisation
- Dehumanization
- Dehumanize
- Dehumanized
- Faith
- Feeling Human
- Generosity
- Healing
- Healing Abuse
- Healing Insights
- Humanity
- Inhuman
- Inhumane
- Inhumane Treatment
- Inhumanity
- Isolated
- Loss Of Self
- Loss Of Social Interaction
- No Longer Human
- Outcast
- Ptsd
- Reclaiming Dignity
- Reclaiming Your Life
- Recovery
- Recovery From Abuse
- Rejected
- Society
- Survivor
- Survivors
- Traumatic Experiences
- Traumatized
- Victim
- Victimized