Quotes by Relationship Coaches - Page 2

When you're confident in what you bring to the table, you don't have to chase and beg anyone to sit down and eat.
Stephan Labossiere
You cannot love if you cannot forgive.
Kemi Sogunle
Relationships can be compared to the shopping process. You shop for clothes, food, shoes, etc. You aim at getting yourself the very best things you need and carefully select the items. We can apply this same concept when we take the time to know and understand those we invite into our space. We may not know everything about them upfront but just as we try on clothes to see if they fit, so also should we evaluate those we surround ourselves with and set boundaries where applicable.
Kemi Sogunle
A woman sees the strength and potentials in a man and pushes him through support to be the very best. A girl sees him as less than he is capable of achieving.
Kemi Sogunle
Honesty is one of the key elements to a great relationship. If you cannot be honest with your partner, stay single.
Kemi Sogunle
A bird cannot fly with broken wings. Your heart cannot love without learning to heal.
Kemi Sogunle
Without living, there will be no learning. Without learning, there will be no growth. Without growth, there will be no change. The only way you learn is by trying. You may make mistakes but you have to remember that doing so will lead to change. Be willing to learn from experiences, grow and live to become better not bitter.
Kemi Sogunle
Think before you act. Reason before you react.
Kemi Sogunle
Focussing on Karma than on the lessons needed to be learned is setting a trap for "what goes around comes around." Never wish for others what you will not wish for yourself. Do to others as you want done to you. That's what love is about!
Kemi Sogunle
Struggling isn't a sign of failure but of strength. Keep pushing, keep striving...your best is yet to come!
Kemi Sogunle
Giving someone gifts cannot equate to spending quality time with them. Never replace time with things. Time is precious and once lost cannot be regained. Make every moment count...you never know when your time will be up.
Kemi Sogunle
You cannot be a light to others or yourself, if you have dark intentions in your heart.
Kemi Sogunle
Depressed states can make us feel like we're constantly fighting against ourselves but we must engage in that fight for ourselves.
Sam Owen
Everyone feels depressed, angry or frustrated at times; it’s a crossroads not a dead end.
Sam Owen
Closeness eases the anxiety and depression of believing that no one really cares about you. It softens the frustration and anger that come with feeling that no one understands you. Suddenly, others become available to us. Suddenly, we feel better inside.
Kira Asatryan
Your level of ignorance is based on what you believe you know and your ego.
Kemi Sogunle
If your level of anger or bitterness is not leading to a change in your life or relationship, it is because your ego is dominating.
Kemi Sogunle
Always do good when you're tempted to do evil. The reward in doing good is priceless.
Kemi Sogunle
You are a light born to shine. You are not who the world thinks you are. You are not what you think you are. You are as God created you. Never see yourself less than that. You are powerful than you know!
Kemi Sogunle
Different plants thrive together in a well nurtured garden. Just as they thrive, they pass on a message to mankind - God created us all to thrive with one another and planted love in our hearts for this reason. Let's learn to embrace each other, knowing Love is all we have to keep us growing and going.
Kemi Sogunle
Never stop loving while living, when you stop loving, you stop living.
Kemi Sogunle
Every action you take, leads to a consequence you face. Choose wisely!
Kemi Sogunle
You can't attack the giants in your life, if you are not aiming to strike and hit the target. You can't run a race in vain, if you have no plans to win or finish it. Start, strive and aim high...never give up. Your best is yet to come!
Kemi Sogunle
You cannot operate from a place of love when you are emotionally unstable.
Kemi Sogunle
Plants die off when their roots have no water to sustain them. May your tears feed the roots of love in your heart and bring healing to your soul. May God grant you the strength to move on, knowing there's so much ahead of you.
Kemi Sogunle
The tests we face in life's journey are not to reveal our weaknesses but to help us discover our inner strengths. We can only know how strong we are when we strive and thrive beyond the challenges we face.
Kemi Sogunle
Embrace the anxiety of confronting your emotions because it’s often the emotional hitting of rock bottom that ignites our resolve to get back to the top.
Sam Owen
You may know where to touch her, but that doesn't mean you know how to touch her. Take time to learn what she truly desires.
Stephan Labossiere
Exploration of her body will open the doors to pleasuring her in ways she has yet to experience.
Stephan Labossiere
Positive energy is power. Use it more in your life, and see for yourself the success it creates.
Stephan Labossiere
The grass is not only greener on the side you water but also on the side you prevent preys from feeding on. Learn to keep out the preys and see your lawn flourish.
Kemi Sogunle
When love speaks it is about us or we. When ego speaks it is about I or me.
Kemi Sogunle
Never shut off pain till it eats you up completely. Ensure you find someone you can confide in and trust, share your burdens, cry if you need to by letting it all out. No one is conditioned for pain. We all need to address it and let it go, knowing we cannot change the past but we can make a brighter future out of the lessons learned.
Kemi Sogunle
If you have to cut corners to get it, without allowing yourself go through the process, you will not be able to keep it.
Kemi Sogunle
You can't speak life to others if you don't know how to speak life to yourself. Dead leaves can't breathe.
Kemi Sogunle
Life is a rehearsal. Get dressed and be ready to face it daily.
Kemi Sogunle
Be Mindful of your thoughts. Your thoughts become your words. Your words become your actions. Your actions become your reality.
Kemi Sogunle
Every time you mistreat someone, you reveal the part of you that lacks love and needs to heal.
Kemi Sogunle
Our perspective equals our reality, tweak the perspective and you tweak your reality.
Sam Owen
Healthy people learn how to frequently adjust their thoughts to make reality comfortable and realistic.
Sam Owen
Love never dies but the affection/passion you have for each other may fade over time when you don't personally connect with each other.
Kemi Sogunle
Your passion sustains you. Your purpose is why you were created. Follow your passion but ensure you fulfill your purpose.
Kemi Sogunle
For us to move forward, we have to develop the courage to forward what is behind...the hurt/pain and unpleasant memories that haunt us in the dark moments. We must hold on to our faith as we step out in boldness, strongly believing that our very best lies ahead.
Kemi Sogunle
Thoughts repeated over time, no matter how incorrect, become consolidated in our minds as beliefs because we’ve repeatedly affirmed them over and over again.
Sam Owen
What you feed your mind, will lead your life.
Kemi Sogunle
Seeds strive to become plants by forcing their way through the soil. We can learn from this and push through the struggles we face in life. If they can survive, we can do much more. Keep pushing and pressing forward. Your best is yet to come!
Kemi Sogunle
Without making mistakes, there won't be lessons learned. Without getting hurt, there won't be knowledge gained. The only way we grow is by learning from the past. Always be willing to learn and grow daily. It's how we come to know who we are and what we are made of.
Kemi Sogunle
Without failing at one thing, there won't be an opportunity to try again, learn and grow. Life isn't static but dynamic. Learn to embrace whatever situation you may face and strive to overcome. Believe in yourself, knowing your best is yet to come.
Kemi Sogunle
Your journey is completely yours. It is unique. Others may try to steal part of it, tell it in their words or shape it to suit them. Reality is no one can live it or own it but you. Take charge of your journey, it's yours and yours alone!
Kemi Sogunle
Love is a choice. You can choose to love or hurt but the consequences you suffer will always be based on the choice you make. No one can force you to choose from the two but the state of your heart, soul and mind determines the one you lean towards. Remember, with hurt you can destroy but with love you can CONQUER!
Kemi Sogunle
Being your authentic self exudes a quiet confidence.
Sam Owen
Confident people tend to evaluate their opinions alongside those of others and then follow their intuition.
Sam Owen
Learn to set the pace for your relationship as a couple...not how the world thinks but how God designed it to be.
Kemi Sogunle
If your relationship is draining your energy, making you lose yourself and taking your attention away from God, then you are not in a relationship but a cult. You are busy creating an idol (mini-God) for yourself.
Kemi Sogunle
No one can understand your pain until they experience it. Stop trying to explain.
Kemi Sogunle
Pain and love cannot be in the same space. You can never love anyone in pain. You cannot truly love yourself in pain. The more pain you carry in your heart, the harder it becomes to love anyone including yourself.
Kemi Sogunle
Without forgiveness and love, you will live with resentment, bitterness, malice and strife which result in more pain. You can never love without forgiving. Forgiveness deepens your ability to love and frees you from pain.
Kemi Sogunle
Ego speaks from a place of pride.Judgement comes from a place of pain.Courage speaks from a place of humility.Correction comes from a place of love.Where are you operating from?
Kemi Sogunle
We sometimes have to experience pain for us to have a story to tell. The power to heal from the pain equips us with the strength to rise up again and move beyond it all. We not only become stronger but wise enough to recognize and handle pain in the future. We however, have to learn to let the brick walls fall down so that we can experience true love once more. We must learn from pain and let it lead us to the most beautiful parts of our journey in life. Only then can our stories become fully complete.
Kemi Sogunle
The most painful moments and memories eventually lead to the greatest strengths and growth in life.
Kemi Sogunle