Quotes by Nigerian Authors - Page 96

So a complex, by distorting our perception of ourselves in our mind, builds obstacles that prevent achievement of our goals
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Remember! If during the day a person didn’t do anything concerning his purpose and calling, he did nothing at all
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We constantly worry about the fact that we are not the most intelligent and successful ones
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The energy that is necessary for us to achieve the goal is spent on meaningless anxiety
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We cannot achieve or goal when we are afraid, not confident, passive and indecisive
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Complex is something that distort our perception of ourselves and the world
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To get rid of complexes and consequently, to finding a more conscious and harmonious life is to see and understand where these distortions occurs in our lives
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Find as much information about your subject as you can
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The larger the complex, the more the energy it takes away from us
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When a complex is acquired, personal development is stopped and the person even being an adult, sometimes behaves in a childish and immature way
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Complexes and negative beliefs remain in our sub consciousness for a life time
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Our subconscious mind stores all our negative beliefs, complexes and behavioral patterns
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The main strength of the subconscious mind is that it stores all of a person’s beliefs
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All that is considered truth and undoubted will sooner or later get into the sub consciousness
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We need to analyze our picture of the world
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It is necessary to analyze all the restricting beliefs and complexes, which we acquired in childhood, from family, school and society
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We should get rid of these restricting attitudes and system of beliefs in order to remove obstacles in our way to the achievements of our goals and revealing our potential
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If a person who grew up in an unhappy family cannot reprogram the sub consciousness he will not be able to create a strong marital union in the future
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As a result, your subconscious mind will do its best to keep you from a successful marriage, because you have a disagreement between your consciousness and sub consciousness
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Sub-consciousness is extremely selfish, it will do anything to keep you safe and main in a comfort zone
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Negative beliefs and complexes are stored in your subconscious mind and create a weakness, which will not let you succeed in life
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When a child is immersed in a certain environment, his thinking is formed by roles models of behavior demonstrated by parents in the family who have had a great influence on the formation of thinking of the child
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You need to understand that you are not your appearance or your body
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You are the characterize, values and beliefs that are inherent only inside you
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What is inherent inside you is your uniqueness and peculiarity
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The complex known as feelings of guilt does not let us accept ourselves the way we are created
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Successful self-actualization can prevent inferiority complexes
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The more distortions we have the less attention we can pay to realizing our potential and self- actualization of our personality
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You need to do research, to approach the study of the issue from all sides
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If you are indecisive, make decisions quickly and act in accordance with your decisions you will be able to acquire a new habit
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The complex called the feeling of guilt does not let us accept ourselves the way we are created
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Without accepting ourselves, we try to meet requirements of society and do everything to be accepted
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All energy given to us for the achievements of goals and self-actualization is instead spent on deriving acceptance from our surroundings and compliance with the requirements of the society
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A person with victim mentality cannot find himself, his life mission, and go towards his aims
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People with victim mentality, consider actions such as making decisions, setting goals and achieving them to be nothing more than formidable obstacles
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People with victim mentality do not have the habit of thinking on their own or thinking in general
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A man with a victim mentality feels like being a victim who is complaining and crying all the time
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Our goals are not achieved if all our energy given to us to achieve the goal and self-actualization is directed towards being accepted by our surroundings and to meet their requirements
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People with victim mentality often do not have life purpose, because they do not know how to acquire them unless someone plans their future for them
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People with victim mentality spend their energy not on achieving their target but on meaningless complaints
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An inferiority complex is acquired in childhood
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Both positive and negative thinking can be formed in a child
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Negative thinking is based on complexes
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If a child is loved, he feels worthy of love in the future
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If a child is roughly treated and not respected and not shown love, the child will have problems with self-esteem
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The child accepts role models of parental behavior unconsciously and without thinking
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A child is not to blame for being immersed in a certain environment and handed down complexes
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For parents, it is important to respect the personality of a child
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In order to change thinking into the positive way, we need to analyze what complexes we have received
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People having a victim complex invite someone to tease them into their lives though they could have mutually beneficial relationships
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You will have a lot of difficulties in achieving goals if you are indecisive and if you are afraid of incorrect actions
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Life can be spent in an atmosphere of continuous encouragement, you will ignore the complex and it will disappear
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The main problem of a person with victim mentality is that he is incapable of thinking over his life and consequently cannot reach his goals
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Files of the past can be changed through shock, encouragement or pain
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A child learns to be guilty when he is punished and scolded for damaging material objects
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Guilt takes away the energy and strength and reduces a person’s productivity
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Accidents and sicknesses are accepted as deserved retribution by the person who has feelings of guilt
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Complex prevents a person from being a fully valued personality
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Complex prevents a person from implementing his potentials
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Negative thoughts about us and our life may deprive us of our health
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