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Image of the quote is loading... SaveSave Let's stop pretending that we have all the answers, because when it comes to gender, none of us is fucking omniscient. - Quote by Kate Bornstein

Let’s stop pretending that we have all the answers, because when it comes to gender, none of us is fucking omniscient.

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